For awhile now, and as much as I've wanted to, I haven't been able to believe in the concept of falling in love. It just doesn't make sense to me.
I think it's kind of made up; overrated, like people convince themselves they've fallen in love because they want it so bad. It wouldn't be the first time mankind had wanted to believe in something so badly that they lived their lives around something completely false. And so a question arises, why do they convince themselves that all they need in life, is to fall in love?
Just a few months ago, I admit, I was like that too but after a series of unpleasant events in my life, I was forced to realize that there is a major difference between loving somebody and being in love. I realized that loving somebody is what I'd been doing all along and that I should no longer need anything else. But it still left me with an empty feeling. So what does that mean?
Is falling in love true or imagined?
I guess I have no choice but to wait and see.
Sunday, May 06, 2007
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i dont think its made up its when u are so used to having someone there for you and you care for them and they make u happy and are everything you want and need and stuff and you sometimes dont realize.. how great they are till they are gone..
some people dont always say "I LOVE YOU" all the time but its still there and others say it all the time..
its just something you have to wait for.
Holy God! How can you live without love? How can something that stirs up such strong and irrefusseable emotions be meaningless and false?
hm. you know what, jay? i don't think people convince themselves that they're in love, i think its just chemistry between two people. its a feeling, like "i really want to spend the rest of my life with this person." you can't deny that there are people in the world who are really and truly in love. maybe you just need to find it.
love is unpolluted happiness
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